Is Santa Claus Real?

How to Answer the Santa Question

Nov 29, 2008 Sara McGrath

Beyond giving a simple yes or no answer, parents may consider the consequences to children of how they approach, interpret, and inevitably answer the Santa question.

When eight-year-old Virginia O'Hanlon asked her father the inevitable question of whether or not Santa Claus is real, he told her to ask The Sun. New York Sun writer Francis P. Church answered in the affirmative in an unsigned, but nonetheless famous editorial.

"Yes, VIRGINIA, there is a Santa Claus. He exists as certainly as love and generosity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy."--Francis P. Church, New York Sun, 1897

When eight-year-old Jason asked his mother the same question, Jan Hunt, author of Does the Santa Legend Endanger Trust?, answered in the negative, telling her son that Santa is a myth based on the story of Saint Nicholas. When her son responded with dismay, confusion, and sadness, Jan Hunt regretted telling him that Santa was real in the first place.

Many people applauded Francis Church's choice to keep the magic alive for children. Virginia O'Hanlon's father was apparently content to support whatever answer the New York Sun chose to give his daughter, telling her, "If you see it in The Sun, it must be true."

Jan Hunt wondered whether it is possible to keep the fantasy without the well-meant white lie. Ultimately, she recommended originally telling the Santa story as fiction and keeping it fiction so the deception would never be necessary and the Santa question and resulting disappointment could be avoided.

Beyond a Simple Yes or No Answer

Jan Hunt denied that Santa Claus is a living, physical being who magically delivers gifts to the world's children, as the story goes. Francis Church affirmed that Santa Claus is as real as love and generosity and devotion. If Santa Claus is not the jolly gift-giver of myth, perhaps he can still be the spirit of generosity, a personification rather than a person, an embodiment rather than a body, a parable rather than a fiction.

Parents may choose to support their children's belief in Santa Claus with the body of a jolly old elf or in Santa Claus as the embodiment of the Christmas spirit. Or they may choose to enjoy an entertaining fictional holiday story along with the inspirational historical story of Saint Nick.

When a child asks, Is Santa Claus Real?, parents may consider to what question they are answering. Does Santa Claus exist in the real world? No, maybe, probably not? Does he exist in the world of the imagination? Yes!

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Nov 30, 2008 8:23 AM
Guest :
i believe in santa clause realy mutch im still 12 i aint been told nothing i herd his bells one night i got realy excited i went down stairts i saw a red coat with black boots my mum and dad were in bed aswell
Nov 30, 2008 5:31 PM
Guest :
i think that santa claus is real! do you?
Dec 1, 2008 9:18 AM
Sara McGrath :
I told my daughter that everyone makes up their own mind about Santa Claus. I said I had never seen him myself, so I couldn't say for sure. She told me that she saw a red light in the sky and heard bells, so she believes!
Dec 1, 2008 2:55 PM
Guest :
you rock.mery xmas

Dec 1, 2008 2:58 PM
Guest :
Chyann dagg

i think you rock.you spread joy around the world.Thank you santa

Dec 1, 2008 2:59 PM
Guest :
you rock.mery xmas

Dec 4, 2008 11:25 AM
Guest :
One of my children asked me about it and I was prepared thanks to my neighbor. She told me about a site she went to that allows you to upload a picture of your living room and then put "Santa" in there...presto! Proof of santa! I think the URL was www.icaughtsanta.com
Dec 5, 2008 10:14 AM
Guest :
santa real!?!?!?
Dec 5, 2008 10:15 AM
Guest :
santa real!?!?!?
Dec 6, 2008 8:02 AM
Guest :
are you real
Dec 7, 2008 3:14 PM
Guest :
This is really upseting. i am 12 and still believe in santa. me and my little brother are going to set up a plan to prove to the world he's real. so you no - good grown ups better watch out.if he's not you better be real sorry about lying to your kids all these years. You apearently don't know your kid's minds. you don't know who your dealing with
Dec 7, 2008 3:15 PM
Guest :
This is really upseting. i am 12 and still believe in santa. me and my little brother are going to set up a plan to prove to the world he's real. so you no - good grown ups better watch out.if he's not you better be real sorry about lying to your kids all these years. You apearently don't know your kid's minds. you don't know who your dealing with
Dec 7, 2008 6:05 PM
Sara McGrath :
Young believers, don't fret yet. Can any parent truly prove that Santa does or doesn't exist? Since I have never seen him, myself, I would not presume to inform my children one way or the other.
Dec 7, 2008 6:05 PM
Guest :
Is Santa real? I don't know? I just well oh IDK
Dec 7, 2008 7:58 PM
Guest :
are my mom and dad santa!!! your parints soud tell the truth!!
Dec 7, 2008 8:03 PM
Guest :
Santa is real in every heart that believes. Just like god, some believe, some don't. So don't let anyone tell you different. There has always been a Santa, and good will toward men. Christmas is about Jesus's birthday, but also the good that everyone gives to each other.It brings out the best in everyone. So you keep believing!!
Dec 7, 2008 8:05 PM
Guest :
are my mom and dad santa!!! your parints soud tell the truth!! i dont belive in santa and i beliv in santa!!!
Dec 8, 2008 8:07 AM
Guest :
i love santa claus
Dec 8, 2008 8:08 AM
Guest :
i love santa claus
Dec 8, 2008 3:24 PM
Guest :
Santa Claus is not real because I got my Parents putting all the presents under the tree at night and I saw my Dad eating the cookies and milk.
Dec 8, 2008 4:56 PM
Sara McGrath :
To the last guest: Perhaps your dad is Santa? What I mean is that perhaps he was in possession of the holiday spirit? Maybe Santa, the spirit of Christmas, acts through parents in this way? Maybe this is part of the magic?
Dec 9, 2008 12:47 AM
Guest :
i am an 11 year old girl i have always believed in him until now.
Actually i don't know what to believe any more , my mum says he is real but my aunt said he is not, but he used to be.
i am sorry to those who do believe for what i fust said but it is true he is not real UNDER STAND HE IS NOT REAL!!!!!!!!

stranger...
Dec 9, 2008 12:49 AM
Guest :
i am an 11 year old girl i have always believed in him until now.
Actually i don't know what to believe any more , my mum says he is real but my aunt said he is not, but he used to be.
i am sorry to those who do believe for what i fust said but it is true he is not real UNDER STAND HE IS NOT REAL!!!!!!!!

stranger...
Dec 9, 2008 10:19 AM
Guest :
I have not gotten to that point where my kids are asking but it sure is fun while they still believe, a new website called www.capturethemagic.com actually lets you prove that Santa is real, and you can catch him in your house! Check it out, really cool site!
Dec 10, 2008 7:21 AM
Guest :
And capturethemagic.com is SO MUCH CHEAPER than icaughtsanta.com...and the quality is 10x better as well- It gives me a chance to bring the joy and fantasy back into my kids life


Dec 10, 2008 3:27 PM
Guest :
umm....
Dec 10, 2008 5:29 PM
Guest :
Zanta FAkE
Dec 11, 2008 10:55 AM
Guest :
He has to be rea; once i woke up and found a santa hat on my roof an we only had one santa hat and it was still at the end of my bed so he is real and dont let anyone tell you otherwise.
Dec 13, 2008 3:52 PM
Guest :
Just because you never seen him doesn't mean he isn't real. There is no proof he doesn't exist i think he is real! Shame on all of you crushing peoples believe! I'm may be just 11 but everyone has the right to believe what they want. If other people/kids ask if he exist don't say no he doesn't cause THERE IS NO PROOF HE DOESN'T EXIST! HE WILL ALWAYS EXIST IN MY HEART NO MATTER WHAT YOU PEOPLE SAY!!!!
Dec 13, 2008 6:47 PM
Sara McGrath :
That is right! Believe what *feels* true to you.
Dec 14, 2008 8:05 AM
Guest :
No, Santa is not real at all.
Dec 15, 2008 3:13 AM
Guest :
evey one who belives in santa rock my name is abby im 5
Dec 15, 2008 10:15 AM
Guest :
He has to be real cos every xmas eve i go out at midnight and one time i heard his bells, also norad tracks santa and they area military defense team, would they lie to you?

If they did we might be under attack from some random people by now.
Dec 15, 2008 12:42 PM
Guest :
I'm only 9 nearly 10 on 21st December! I have mixed feelings about Santa Clause... I dont understand how he can deliver all those presents to a mass of children under one night. One time I saw a present that my mum and dad were wrapping a present, and they said they have to help santa wrap the presents... Which is sort-off beliveible. My opinion all in all was that I think Santa was real...
Dec 15, 2008 1:24 PM
Guest :
well if he is still real than let me see him if not that is ok i guess!
Dec 15, 2008 2:40 PM
Guest :
no because how can a fat guy be that old and fit down a chimney have reindeer fly give presents to every kid have dogs not bark at them and live in the north pole?!?
Dec 15, 2008 3:25 PM
Guest :
is santa real
Dec 15, 2008 6:09 PM
Guest :
is santa real i dont know mom says yes dad said NO umm im 7 almost 8 andd i dont know what to belive anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!this took time.......
Dec 16, 2008 4:38 AM
Guest :
you are not real you are a fake and you are so fat you cannot fit down a chimney
Dec 16, 2008 12:49 PM
Guest :
i know hes not real because my mammy hides all the presants and i found them this year
Dec 19, 2008 10:07 AM
Guest :
i believe in santa and i am 11 years old ive seen him 3 times maybe u dont believe in him but i no the truth and he is real
Dec 20, 2008 12:46 PM
Guest :
i belive in santa when itwas christmas i was up all night no one went downstairs and who would eat the carrots because the the when we lock the door the key i hided it and when i woke it was still there and it need a code to open it they did not know so he is real
Dec 20, 2008 12:47 PM
Guest :
i belive in santa when itwas christmas i was up all night no one went downstairs and who would eat the carrots because the the when we lock the door the key i hided it and when i woke it was still there and it need a code to open it they did not know so he is real
Dec 20, 2008 3:12 PM
Guest :
is there really an answer to this question?
Dec 20, 2008 5:20 PM
Guest :
I dont know if santa's real. Ive been searching the net for if he's real and I havvent found a thing!!!!
Please tell me I want to know.
And give me sites to find the answer
Please I need to know!!!
Dec 20, 2008 6:00 PM
Guest :
sant nic is true, he use to go to poor pepoels houses when they were aslep and leve them presents,, but the one that is could santa u only hav e to belive in him and then he is realy true.
thats the best i can give u cause if u dont belive then he isnt true to u but if u do then he is as alive as u are.
Dec 21, 2008 1:35 PM
Guest :
are you real
Dec 21, 2008 3:23 PM
Guest :
i think santa is real i am just sieing this becouse all my friends and me are 10 years old and all of them but me dont belive in sante i do thow i would belive him even when i am 30
Dec 22, 2008 2:14 PM
Guest :
i belive that santa clause is a hoax. therefour i mean come on now its a portly man who slides down a chimney every christmas to hundreds of thousands of houses and eats all of thier cookies and delivers preseants... come on now
Dec 23, 2008 5:17 AM
Guest :
sorry but santa is not real
Dec 24, 2008 2:32 AM
Guest :
i don't belive in santa
Dec 24, 2008 6:57 AM
Guest :
colin I think santa is not real because how could he fly
Dec 24, 2008 7:31 AM
Guest :
Once, when I was about 7 or 8 I was in my bed asleep on christmas eve and I woke up in the middle of the night and I heard the t.v. on
down the hall and the lights were on too.I also heard stuff being dropped on the floor and heavy footsteps.I stayed in my bed and I pretended to be
asleep.A few minutes later,someone came into my bedroom, It was santa clause, and he touched my little face, with his white gloves.A real story, I am
now 12, and I somewhat stil believe in santa clause.
Dec 24, 2008 9:15 AM
Guest :
I'm not sure if Santas real coz i found a present under my tree before christmas and it said from Santa,but there is a site to tell where
santa is on christmas eve but they probely make da whole thing up
so not he is REAl!!!
Dec 24, 2008 3:30 PM
Guest :
i'm a 15 year old girl...and yes...i DO believe in santa.
if there was no santa, how do the poorer homes still have gifts for their children at christmas?
if there was no santa, why would there be a website called noradtrackssanta.org following his every move
on Christmas Eve?
Santa is REAL.
Dec 24, 2008 6:04 PM
Guest :
Kaitlyn from grand coteau,louisanna;I DO THINK SANTA IS REAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dec 26, 2008 11:53 AM
Sara McGrath :
Thank you to all who have commented here. I have greatly enjoyed reading the many reasons why you do or do not believe in Santa.
Jun 7, 2009 5:16 PM
Guest :
I have really been doubting Santa is real and my parents are trying to convince me he is. I think I will make my kids believe as long as they can becasue that's what all the magic is about!
Jun 7, 2009 5:17 PM
Guest :
I have really been doubting Santa is real and my parents are trying to convince me he is. I think I will make my kids believe as long as they can becasue that's what all the magic is about!
Nov 29, 2009 2:34 PM
Guest :
I have proof Santa isn't real. Even if every one got a 2-pound Lego pack, santa would need 214,200 reindeer, not just eight! Plus, Santa would be dead by now. he's an old guy...
Nov 29, 2009 2:37 PM
Guest :
Form the last person too,
NO KNOWN SPECIES OF REINDEER CAN FLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dec 9, 2009 2:54 PM
Guest :
i belive in santa am 7 years old am turning 8 santa is real if u think he isnt he wont bring u presents
Dec 10, 2009 6:43 PM
Guest :
I am 10 years old right now and I DO believe i Santa Claus. One night I left 2 pictures by the tree, one of santa and one of rudolph. When I woke up I saw that the Santa one wasnt there. The Rudolph one wasnt though. So, I believe in Santa, but not Rudolph. Come on, Rudolph has a red blinking nose? Nah ah
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